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What Happens If I Stop Paying Child Support And I Am Not The Father?

In the state of Colorado, determining what happens if someone stops paying child support and is not legally the father or a legal parent can be complex. Under Colorado’s child support statutes, child support is treated as a right of the child, and the duty of support belongs to the “parents.” For example, Colorado Revised Statutes (C.R.S.) § 14-10-115 states the court “may order either or both parents owing a duty of support to a child of the marriage to pay… an amount determined to be reasonable and necessary” for the child. Colorado law uses the Uniform Parentage Act (UPA) structure for determining legal parentage. For example, C.R.S. § 19-4-105 sets out presumptions of paternity. One key part states that a man is presumed to be the natural father if he and the mother were married when the child was born, he acknowledges paternity, and other scenarios. 

When it comes to the enforcement of a support order, Colorado Child Support Services notes that “Unpaid child support does not go away. If child support is not paid, a balance will be created. The balance will continue to be due until it is paid in full.” Those who want to stop paying child support who are not the father may want to consider getting in touch with an experienced family law firm like the Colorado Divorce Law Group at (720) 593-6442 to deal with some of the risks and complexities associated with the legal process. 

How Colorado Law Addresses Paternity and Child Support

If an individual was never adjudicated as a father, never acknowledged paternity, and the mother never pursued them as the father, they likely do not have a support obligation. However, they must also ensure parentage has been legally addressed. For those who were presumed the father (for example, by being married at the time of the child’s birth), then the presumption puts legal parental responsibilities on them until they are rebutted, under § 19-4-105. Rebutting the presumption of paternity can be complex, as there are many different factors that could come into play. Under Colorado’s Uniform Parentage Act (UPA), found in C.R.S. § 19-4-105, certain circumstances automatically create a presumption of paternity or parentage. These include the following situations.

  • The man was married to the mother when the child was born or conceived.
  • The man voluntarily acknowledged paternity in writing, and it has not been rescinded.
  • The man consistently acted as the child’s father, receiving the child into his home and presenting the child to the public as if it were his own.

Understanding the impact of Colorado paternity laws can help individuals determine if they are able to stop paying child support or not. 

Legal Responsibilities of a Presumed Father

If a man is presumed father under § 19-4-105 (for example, by being married to the mother at the time of birth), then the presumption gives them legal responsibilities until rebutted. If a court or administrative order has been entered requiring support from the man – even if he believes he is not the father – then the support debt remains enforceable until the order is modified or removed. If you stop paying and you are the obligor under a valid order, then you face enforcement and increasing debt. Men, including step-parents, who want to avoid future liability should take prompt legal action to challenge parentage, ideally before large arrears accrue. However, it is important to note that the law may limit how far back parentage can be challenged, and men may still face liability for the time they were legally treated as the parent if they stop paying child support. 

A local family law firm in Colorado, like Colorado Divorce Law Group, may be able to offer assistance.

Understanding The Legal Options Of Challenging or Disputing Parentage

Here is an overview of what a man can do if he believes he is not the father (biologically or legally). These are some of the options under Colorado law:

  • Challenge or dispute parentage – If a man has evidence (e.g., a DNA test) that he is not the biological parent, you can raise this in a parentage action. They can also request genetic testing. The statute for parentage in Colorado allows an action to declare the non-existence of the parent/child relationship under certain circumstances. If a man was listed as a parent or acknowledged parentage, the path may be more difficult and time-limited.
  • Move to modify or terminate the child support order – If a man succeeds in establishing that they are not the legal parent, or if there’s been a mistake in the support order (e.g., he is not the father), then he may ask the court to modify or terminate the obligation. According to the Colorado Judicial Branch, a man can file paperwork to “End Child Support” through the same court that issued the child support order. 
  • Seek reimbursement or relief for payments made in error – This is a less likely and more complex route. If a man has already paid significant amounts and is later found not to be the legal parent, obtaining reimbursement can be difficult. Courts may consider that he is not the biological parent as a valid ground for reconsidering support, but many other factors, like the statutes of limitations, prior orders, equities, and more, will matter.

An experienced Colorado family lawyer can help navigate the legal complexities of these situations. 

The Importance Of An Experienced Family Law Firm In Colorado

Men who want to stop paying child support should absolutely avoid simply ignoring the child support order. If they stop paying child support without taking the proper legal steps, they may accrue arrears and face enforcement consequences. Colorado statutes specify that unpaid support remains enforceable, interest accrues, and men remain liable unless the order is legally modified. 

Connecting with an experienced family law firm in Colorado is crucial for men who are paying child support for a child who may not be theirs, because the situation involves multiple overlapping areas of law. The paternity, support, and court orders can all carry serious legal and financial consequences if not addressed properly. Colorado Divorce Law Group at (720) 593-6442 can help men strategically build a case, prevent contempt or enforcement actions, and navigate the complex parental laws to ensure the best possible legal results.